Sometimes, even with the best-laid plans, the sea has other ideas. We had our hearts set on Washington, D.C., and had even started our journey there, picturing a Halloween adventure in the capital. But when the wind and waves hit us head-on, our plans began to shift as much as our boat did. What was supposed to be a straightforward sail became a slow, 2.5-knot struggle against the elements. After two hours of rolling seas and a queasy crew, we paused to rethink.
We sat together, worn out, asking ourselves the big questions: Did we still want to push through to Washington? Yes. But was it worth another eight hours of exhausting progress? Not really. Our minds wandered to other options—anchoring down, waiting out the wind, or even shifting course. After weighing it all, we decided to change direction, both literally and figuratively.
As we turned the wheel and changed course, it felt like a weight lifted. The waves were now behind us, and the wind that once slowed us down was suddenly an ally, pushing us forward. We went from a sluggish 2.5 knots to a smooth 6.6, and the mood on board transformed instantly. Instead of just enduring, we found ourselves dancing, laughing, and feeling a new sense of freedom.
For now, Washington will wait. Maybe we missed out on an unforgettable Halloween, but the choice to go with the flow brought peace and energy that felt just as meaningful.
One thing I’ve come to accept about this lifestyle is its level of spontaneity. Living on a sailboat with kids means constantly adjusting, staying flexible, and knowing when to let go. We aren’t tied to a specific itinerary but instead choose to prioritize what feels right for us, in the moment. When something feels too hard, we pause, evaluate what’s most important, and make choices accordingly.
For us, it’s not about giving up on our dreams but sometimes choosing to pursue them differently—or at a later time.
Ultimately, rerouting wasn’t about abandoning our plans. It was about aligning with the wind and waves instead of fighting them. As we sail, we’re learning that letting go isn’t defeat; it’s a way of living with purpose and peace, knowing that the journey matters as much as the destination.
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