Deciding on your next dream is undeniably one of the most challenging steps. The essence of a dream is often tied to its perceived unattainability. However, achieving a dream does not diminish its value as a dream.
So, how does it happen?
A dream is essentially a goal surrounded by uncertainty. Turning it into reality requires planning, willingness, and the courage to face the unknown. Not everyone wants to make the necessary effort or is ready to live with uncertainty. In fact, most people choose not to.
And that's perfectly fine; it's also what makes achieving a dream so special.
But even if you have a dream and are ready to pursue it, it might not always be possible because some dreams are truly far-fetched. I will never be six feet tall, and I probably won't own a private island (unless one of you wants to donate one 😉 ).
So, when we approach fulfilling a dream, it's important to understand its type, the obstacles that stand in our way, and whether there's a chance they can be overcome. People feel comfortable with different "possible" levels before pursuing a dream. Personally, a dream that fits within the "probably possible" category is one I love to turn into a goal—a moon shot. It's like saying, "Challenge accepted."
The challenges on the path to fulfillment and the achievement itself are worth the risk of failure to me.
It's important to say something about failure. If we stop midway or decide not to pursue a dream because it isn't right for us, that's perfectly fine. There's no such thing as real failure when it comes to our lives. The fact that we ventured, considered, dared, and lived means we didn't fail. The wind just led us to a different place than we initially thought.
It may be disappointing, but dreams, like us, mature, change, and evolve over the years.
So, how do we decide on our next dream? We ensure it meets three conditions:
✨Readiness: We want to achieve it and are ready now.
✨Feasibility: There are no external barriers we can't overcome.
✨Affordability: We have the financial means to pursue it.
Now, I need your help. Take two dreams you've had—one you achieved and one you didn't—and tell me if the conditions I listed apply to them.
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